Sending Gmail to the Spam Folder

[This article is intended for more technical users. I have a shorter article on this topic tailored to less technical users that are interested in the topic, which you can find here: Ditching Gmail]

Of all the Google services I am kicking to the curb, I actually expected Gmail to be the most painful before starting this experiment (see the meta article for the back story on this series of articles). Surprisingly, though, it has turned out to be the least painful. In fact, I am even liking my new scenario for mail even better than the old "Gmail everywhere" strategy.

The reason I dreaded this shift the most was because I had painful memories of life before Gmail. Back in those days, most of my mail accounts only supported POP, which meant I was stuck checking my mail on only one computer or device unless I wanted a sync disaster. Of course, the solution in those days was to have multiple mail accounts, one for each device, in addition to the "real" account. When Gmail arrived and offered free IMAP support and lots of storage, it was a breath of fresh air. To top it off, the web client wasn't horrible. It wasn't long after setting up my Gmail account that all my other accounts got shut down or rolled into it using the ability to pull mail from other addresses into Gmail.

Having all that already in place before the smartphone revolution happened made the transition to the iPhone, then Android, quite painless. Every new Android phone I bought made me love Gmail even more as I simply entered my username and password and watched everything appear in the Gmail client with no work on my part. The ease of all this made me stick with Gmail, even during its most annoying experiments with user interfaces and features.

Trouble in Paradise

Speaking of annoying experiments, Gmail has been rubbing me the wrong way for the last year or so. Routine changes to the design of the web client and Android client, really quirky means of accessing mail in labels in the web client, this new separation of the Inbox, and the rapidly declining accuracy in Spam filtering have all been like grains of sand in the swim trunks. So, I was already primed for a change before Google started buying up every info gathering company it could find. Although the changes to Gmail weren't part of the reason I left, it reduced my attachment just enough that I was finally willing to do it when the other reasons finally got to me.

At first, I was dreading the move away, thinking again of those bad old days. I started looking at the options, though, and realized that there were at least a few that I could live with in my new drive to be free of companies that used their users as their product rather than the services they provide. I quickly narrowed down to three options, then to two almost immediately thereafter.

Options Worth Considering

I wanted to use my own domain for my email in the future so that I would have portability and never again have to give out a new email address (or, worse, change email addresses in tons of online accounts as I am still doing now). That limited my choices, but there were still a surprising number through which I could do that. After weeding out the companies that I didn't really trust, and looking and asking around, I came down to a final decision between three options: using the mail server included with my web hosting, using mykolab.com so that I would have all the features Gmail offered with a good suite of Linux clients, or fastmail.fm for the known reliability.

Using the mail server included with my web hosting... oh right, never mind: For just a few minutes, I actually thought about using my own since I am on a server hosted at LiquidWeb, and they have good reliability. Then, I remembered my days of running the mail domain at work in Zimbra on our own servers and thought about how much fun it is when your domain gets blacklisted by some other domain. Trying to get your mail domain off a blacklist is not fun. It's even possible to get on one without realizing it, so that your emails to anyone in that domain just disappear with no explanation. This was precisely what drove me to move our mail domain at work to Google Apps for Your Domain in the first place. And while I may be moving my personal mail out of Google, there is no way I am going back to that hell with a domain of several hundred email addresses. So, yeah, strike this option.

Using my domain on top of MyKolab: To be honest, I really wanted to go this route because Kolab looks awesome and integrates with Kontact, a suite of Linux KDE PIM apps that I was planning to use on my computer to handle email and contacts. Plus, there is a sync client available for Android that will run in the AOSP version without needing Google services. I came extremely close to going this route, but the only two factors that gave me pause were that I did not know anyone else with any experience using it (not a good one, I know) and that it would guarantee that the agencies would capture all my traffic to the server since it is overseas. Granted, I have nothing to fear, but I am philosophically opposed to the surveillance mentality. Using an overseas server assures that they will be storing my traffic. Maybe they won't ever be able to decrypt it anyway, but I just don't like being watched... on any level. Ask my wife about how I clam up when we go out to eat. The thought of people around us possibly listening to me just bothers me. Sorry for being Aspberger's. :P

Using my domain on FastMail: The decision between fastmail.fm and mykolab.com was so close that I went back and forth for about a day before just deciding to setup FastMail. Now that I have been using it for more than a month, I have some feedback on it. It is definitely not perfect, but it is really good in a lot of ways, and may just be the best option for most people looking to get out of other mail services so long as they aren't put off by paying for the service to avoid being sold by the service.

FastMail Cons:

FastMail Pros:

Mission Accomplished

So, to sum up, getting yourself out of the corporate grasp of being treated as a product to be bought and sold is not that difficult or expensive, and you just may find yourself liking your new service better anyway. If your needs are more complex than what I have described above, or if you really do need a calendar that syncs between multiple devices and want it integrated to your account, then MyKolab is probably a better option for you and you should check them out. If what you want is primarily email, FastMail is a great solution and their pricing tiers can cover almost any scenario you plan to use it for. I still intend to set up a domain at MyKolab and give it a proper trial when I have time, and I may end up moving my main domain there in the end after all, but FastMail is serving me well for email and site hosting... enough so that I have not missed the features I lose by leaving Google. And even though I am not using Gmail for my real email anymore, I am keeping the account around to cover any mail that gets sent there from people who haven't updated their address books and for marketing email which I don't want cluttering up my primary account. Yes, I am now treating my Gmail account as the one I use in cases where I expect to get spammed by the site or service I am signing up for... so I guess you can say I have sent Gmail to the Spam folder, which is fitting since they lately seem to want to put a fair bit of my legitimate mail in the Spam folder despite constantly being told the mail is not Spam. Hooray for... progress?